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Who needs a personal stylist? You do! (and here’s why)

Advice Fashion

Personal stylists are straight out of lifestyles of the rich and famous. And the little known secret is that you do not need to be rich or famous to enjoy the services of a personal stylist!

For individual style appointments, provide your price range, size, and style preferences so the stylist can pre-select clothes before your appointment.  Once in the fitting room, the stylist will ensure that you have the correct size and fit, and listen to your feedback to add more of what you like.  Typically when you schedule your stylist appointment you can let them know if you have a specific event upcoming like holiday party, wedding, or if you’re just shopping for the latest styles.

The best way to make use of your personal shopping stylist is to give honest feedback at regular intervals, do not wait until the end of the appointment.  Clearly explain what you like what don’t you like throughout the appointment.  Be sure to tell them ahead of time if you have any strong feelings about certain outfits (no strapless, or sleeveless for example).

There are generally two types of personal stylists;

  • Stylists that you hire (and pay) directly to find specific items for you.
  • Personal Stylists through a specific store (complimentary service at no additional cost to you).
Nordstrom Shopping event with Private Stylists

I recently participated in a VIP group stylist appointment at Nordstrom for resort wear and new season styles.  Our appointment was in a private salon where three stylists showed us the latest trends and how to wear them.

Group style session complete with Champagne

Several women in our group modeled specific garments or outfits for the group.

Our style show included full outfits with handbags, hats, and shoes!

After we oohed and ahhhed at the full collection, the stylists started fitting rooms with specific clothes in our sizes.  There is no pressure to try on or buy any of the items shown, and the stylists were eager to listen to feedback and select other items based on feedback.  Not everyone bought something from the appointment.  All of the purchases were no pressure and genuinely a great find!

6 Top Tips for getting the most out of your personal Stylist Appointment:

  1. When making the reservation, provide your budget/price range, size, and event or goals for the appointment.
  2. Plan out your undergarments. Wear/bring a strapless bra if you will likely try on strapless dresses.  Wear underwear, even if you usually go commando.
  3. Provide honest feedback on fit, color, and styles. A good stylist will listen to your feedback and provide alternate options based on your preferences.
  4. Come out of the fitting room and show the stylist! Seeing the fit and how you move will provide valuable insight to your stylist.
  5. Take a chance – the dress that looks weird on the hanger, may look fantastic on you!
  6. Ask the stylist for ideas on mix and match options to further extend your wardrobe.

Here are more reasons to book a Personal Stylist Appointment:

Group activities

Perfect for a group of like-minded shopping besties, a group shopping experience is perfect to preview the season clothes.  One or more stylist will work with your group, showing off various styles, trends, and outfit ideas.  The stylist may show the group several outfits, then ask which styles and sizes should be added to the dressing room for each participant.  Some stores are even allowed to serve alcohol, a glass of Champagne or wine may be included in the appointment!

Special Occasion

Think outside the Bridal shop, there are many stores that can accommodate small wedding parties (Bridesmaids can save a ton of money by skipping the big chain Bridal salon, and styles are more likely to be worn again).

Mother of the Bride/Mother of the Groom


Many stores will gladly work with you, and even a small group of friends, to find your perfect Prom, Homecoming, or Winter Formal dress!

Milestone Birthday

What better way to celebrate the big whatever than a mix of classic and updates outfits to add to your wardrobe.

High School Reunions

Travel Shopping

Honeymoon, anniversary trip, dream vacation – add a few destination perfect outfits for your trip!


Weight loss/Gain

Even if the scale barely moves, different weight distribution can completely change the way an outfit looks on you.  A personal stylist can help you break down the barrier of what size/weight you used to be, and focus on finding the perfect fit and style for you now.

Who needs a personal stylist- You do (and here's why)

Disclaimer:  I have used the complimentary services of Personal Stylists at Nordstrom, Ann Taylor, White House Black Market, Liberty (London), and many independent/small boutiques.  Be sure to clarify expectations when booking your appointment, as policy and experience may vary.

Have you ever tried a personal stylist?  Leave your questions and experiences below in the comments.

6 thoughts on “Who needs a personal stylist? You do! (and here’s why)

  1. I would love to meet with a fashion stylist sometime. It would be nice to get advice on the proper fit of clothes. I also like the idea of having them help you know what type of clothes to wear based on your job industry, like you said.

    1. A good personal stylist will find great clothes that you will love how you look! Many stores offer personal stylist services, check with your favorite store to see if they do, too.

  2. I’ve always wondered how that works with a stylist. Thanks for breaking it down. I’ve recently embraced the idea of taking more chances. There’s so many cute pieces that look terrible on the hanger.

    1. I am so glad this is helpful to you! Working with a personal stylist is such a great shopping experience, and so often I find great pieces that I would not have found on my own.

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